Ella's teacher sent home a worksheet over break asking the students to list things they wanted to start doing, stop doing and continue doing. It was a New Year's Resolution kind of thing. Ella said she was going to start reading chapter books by herself, stop fighting with her sister and continue climbing things. I asked if maybe she wanted to list stop chewing on her hair, but she picked not fighting instead. I think she has a better chance with not chewing on her hair, but it was her list so I let it go.
I decided to do the same exercise. Here's my list:
Start: I'm going to start running whenever I get the chance, even if it's at four in the afternoon and only for 20 minutes. I need to just get out there and run and not worry about scheduling my workouts.
Stop: I need to stop beating myself up so much about not being absolutely perfect. It's ok if there's laundry not folded or the floors are a bit dusty. I have three kids, one husband, a house, a dog and a freelance career. I think I've taken on quite enough, and the kids and Brandon need to be my top priorities, not making sure that all the laundry is folded and put up.
Continue: I'm going to continue reading as much as I have been. There's so much to learn about and so many interesting stories out there. I'm broadening my mind and taking a break from the cares of the day.
So there - my New Year's Resolutions. Nothing grand or extravagent. I'm not trying to change the world or cure cancer, just make it through the day and feel good about what I'm doing.
Your start and stops are like my start and stops. I'm very hard on myself. I would love not to be. Then again, maybe that's why I'm so damn perfect?
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